So, we all know having guy friends is pretty easy. They don’t care about most things; they don’t expect you to do anything or give advice; they don’t cause drama, and they can sit in silence for hours. It all seems simple but this is boring! You know what is never boring? Your female besties! Here’s why:
As I said, guys really don’t care about your issues or what you do. Okay, seems great– no opinions but your own. That means no care and advice! I need guidance on whether I am making the right decision, being irrational, in the wrong, etc. The truth is, your vinas will be the first to tell you the truth (even if it isn’t what you want to hear) and make you feel cared for
THEY MAKE TIME FOR YOU
They take time out of their day to think about you. We all have crazy busy lives, but getting a text just to check in is one of the most heart-warming things because it shows your vina cares. They are always ready to give advice, let you vent, or just sit and talk.
THE DRAMA IS OUT OF LOVE
They do cause drama, but out of love, of course! Drama isn’t ALWAYS a bad thing– it can add a little spice and excitement to your life. It’s okay to be angry at each other once in a while, but the next morning you usually end up laughing it off. The best part about friend drama is that, at the end of the day, you can actually bond over it!
Girlfriends will always be there for you and will always give you a shoulder to cry on. Not only are they incredible, they’re very important. So, get out there and go hangout with your vinas! They will make you smile and always brighten your day.
What do you and your BFFS do? Let us know! And don’t forget to download the Hey! VINA app
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